tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3045982499312952909.post4778190875307093130..comments2023-10-12T13:04:21.680-07:00Comments on Romance Author J.M.Davies Rise to Fame & Fortune : The longest night of my life! jenniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08809000154442629663noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3045982499312952909.post-35103789019210120872017-02-22T16:20:01.492-08:002017-02-22T16:20:01.492-08:00Thank you, Cheryl. I was compelled to write it dow...Thank you, Cheryl. I was compelled to write it down because those weeks were blessed, intense and I will never go through anything like it again. I have been there for both my parents but this time was different. I still don't believe mum is gone. It still feels unreal. I still go to call her on the phone but I know deep down she is in a better place. I just miss her. xjenniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08809000154442629663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3045982499312952909.post-60946610172099490762017-02-22T14:37:27.428-08:002017-02-22T14:37:27.428-08:00Jennie what a wondeeful heartfelt tribute to your ...Jennie what a wondeeful heartfelt tribute to your mom. I know she is looking down on you telling you not to be sad that she is in a better place. There is no pain, no loss of memory, just happiness peace and contentment where she is.<br /><br />I understand your not leaving her side. When <br />Ray's mom paat I was the primary caregiver along with the help of hospice. It is painful to see the one you love go through the transition to their last moment. It is something I know I had to be strong for I was the only one in the family who had been taught how to make my mother in law comfortable as the progression to her journey took place. I was the one who had to lift her, give her the meds for the death rattle while the others sat there and told me I made her worse. As you know the rattle gets worse before the medication kicks in. I was the one and sat by her side while hee daughters and son were outside. I had to run and tell them it was time to set her free. I left the room as i was just the daughter in law and felt they needed their privacy but it hurt me to the core of my soul as I had already lost my own mom now I was losing another as I had come to love her like my own. After she took her last breath they left the room and they asked me if she was gone I said yes. They didnt't go back into thw room umtil the hospice nurse came. However, I sat there with her holding her hand and couldn't leave her as I felt her spirit hadn't been set free. I just kept whispering to her to continue her journey that all would be okay. <br /><br />I am happy that I could do that for my mother in law as I know how hard it was for you Jen to say goodbye but rest assured you will meet again. <br /><br />Thank you for your post you brought back alot of memories for me even if some were extremely hard.<br /><br />Cheryl. Xx<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00382115099933766671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3045982499312952909.post-18856070550849722682017-02-16T18:43:03.092-08:002017-02-16T18:43:03.092-08:00Thank you very much for writing this. I've be...Thank you very much for writing this. I've been trying to process my mother's death since it occurred two years ago, and this will help. You have my condolences. Tony Laplumehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854455859399339169noreply@blogger.com